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Relationships: #76851 Crush on girls who help me

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Ask Zeus Operator
#1

For some reason I develop an instant crush on girl's who go out of their way to help me. And I fantasise too much after that, even though they're just being nice. I am aware of it, but it still happens.

What is causing this and how can I stop it spiritually?

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Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN
#2
AskSatanOperator wrote:View source

For some reason I develop an instant crush on girl's who go out of their way to help me. And I fantasise too much after that, even though they're just being nice. I am aware of it, but it still happens.

What is causing this and how can I stop it spiritually?

If the connection is harmful you can do this meditation:
https://templeofzeus.org/Detaching.phpExternal ↗
But in general it is normal for love to be built on concrete gestures of caring for each other spontaneously. However, if you see that you exaggerate in a negative you should detach.
And heal your emotional body:
https://ancient-forums.com/threads/healing-the-emotional-body-for-men-too-don%E2%80%99t-disregard-this.292496/

#3
AskSatanOperator wrote:View source

For some reason I develop an instant crush on girl's who go out of their way to help me. And I fantasise too much after that, even though they're just being nice. I am aware of it, but it still happens.

What is causing this and how can I stop it spiritually?

İts called not being asexual. I don't see any problem here

AFODOLead Translator
#4

Because you need a girlfriend

Henu the GreatActive Helper
#5
AFODO wrote:View source

Because you need a girlfriend

Simple. And the Truth.

AskSatanOperator wrote:View source

For some reason I develop an instant crush on girl's who go out of their way to help me. And I fantasise too much after that, even though they're just being nice. I am aware of it, but it still happens.

What is causing this and how can I stop it spiritually?

Being emotionally reactive to every encounter is perhaps not the most fertile ground to build a relationship on. So one must exercise caution and look if the other person really is a good fit. That's the most important factor--compatibility.