Question #3942: the future of the family

[AskSatanOperator]

I realized that my family on my father's mother's side is dying out and there are only a few left with the surname and blood (the eldest who are the purest), they had children and the family is not totally finished, I had this thought after my grandmother gave me the news that her sister died. I've never wanted to be a mother and this idea makes me uncomfortable but listening to her talk I felt that I should have one to save the family, this may seem a bit silly thinking that I should be the savior. I don't see myself taking care of a human being and teaching them, I don't see my life stopped because of a child, my body simply destroyed, my money that I would like to spend on myself being spent on someone else, the silence of being alone whenever I want. Not to mention the fact that everyone in my family tells me I should never have a child.
I'm young but I'm still worried about it, I think that having a child means clinging to a man forever but I don't want my family to disappear, do I leave it to my siblings and cousins? (I will be 19 this year and yes I am too young to think about children)

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

I realized that my family on my father's mother's side is dying out and there are only a few left with the surname and blood (the eldest who are the purest), they had children and the family is not totally finished, I had this thought after my grandmother gave me the news that her sister died. I've never wanted to be a mother and this idea makes me uncomfortable but listening to her talk I felt that I should have one to save the family, this may seem a bit silly thinking that I should be the savior. I don't see myself taking care of a human being and teaching them, I don't see my life stopped because of a child, my body simply destroyed, my money that I would like to spend on myself being spent on someone else, the silence of being alone whenever I want. Not to mention the fact that everyone in my family tells me I should never have a child.
I'm young but I'm still worried about it, I think that having a child means clinging to a man forever but I don't want my family to disappear, do I leave it to my siblings and cousins? (I will be 19 this year and yes I am too young to think about children)

You can have a family if you want, or you can not have a family.

If you want to start a family, then I recommend that you first solve the financial problems (which you have now), perhaps get an education or get a job (only if you really want to), and then start a family.

It is better to have a foundation under your feet and a safety cushion (in the form of money) before starting a family.

You should also pay attention to the man with whom you will or are going to start a family, discuss these topics with him when you are ready, because a man must take responsibility for material matters while you are with a small child.