Question #3739: sexual self indulgence - when is it unhealthy?

[AskSatanOperator]

I know the joy of Satan allows sexual freedom as long as you're in a relationship with a consenting adult or by yourself, but how do we know if certain sexual fetishes are damaging or not?

I sometimes like extreme femdom, and I also like along with that, wearing traditionally female clothing while pleasure is taking place, but once I release I am disinterested and a little guilty after.

help

 

[CrimsonMonarch]

I think that what you are doing is unhealthy, assuming you're a man. What you're describing is a similar phenomenon that happens with porn addicts, talking from experience here.
When addicted to porn, one tends to watch increasingly more deranged genres because the dopamine provided by the previous "softer" genres one used to watch is now insufficient to satiate the craving. However, after reaching this point, what will happen is that, as soon as orgasm is reached, guilt and shame will follow. This is similar to what you are describing here.

A fetish, at least in my opinion, should not make you feel negatively afterwards. But in your case it seems that you may think you like putting on female clothes, or you think you may like extreme femdom, but once the dopamine is gone and you're back to baseline, you feel ashamed and guilty, and the interest is totally lost.

I cannot assume anything about you, and I don't know if you watched porn or not, but I am almost certain that that is what has happened, and now you're stuck with what you think is a "fetish", but it's actually a very damaging sexual practice. You only like these things when the dopamine has not been supplied, when there is a craving, but once you're back from there, it dawns on you that you may not like this.

I suggest you look into it deeper, I have very little information to give you more advice. Find out if what I said is true, figure out whether these practices have stemmed from a genuine sexual need or pleasure, or if they are a corruption. The craving to do these things is also, most likely, artificial, and not genuine. Just meditate on yourself, and, if you can, whenever you crave these things, take a moment to ask yourself what is about these things that you enjoy and if they really bring you satisfaction, why would they make you feel guilty afterwards. It can help with figuring out what is happening.

Two good books to read on this are "Your Brain On Porn" (more clinical, centered around neurological changes in porn addicts) and EasyPeasy (book to quit porn easily).

This answer assumes a lot of things, so I apologize if I miss the mark. Have a nice day.

 

[existentialcrisis]

I think that what you are doing is unhealthy, assuming you're a man. What you're describing is a similar phenomenon that happens with porn addicts, talking from experience here.
When addicted to porn, one tends to watch increasingly more deranged genres because the dopamine provided by the previous "softer" genres one used to watch is now insufficient to satiate the craving. However, after reaching this point, what will happen is that, as soon as orgasm is reached, guilt and shame will follow. This is similar to what you are describing here.

A fetish, at least in my opinion, should not make you feel negatively afterwards. But in your case it seems that you may think you like putting on female clothes, or you think you may like extreme femdom, but once the dopamine is gone and you're back to baseline, you feel ashamed and guilty, and the interest is totally lost.

I cannot assume anything about you, and I don't know if you watched porn or not, but I am almost certain that that is what has happened, and now you're stuck with what you think is a "fetish", but it's actually a very damaging sexual practice. You only like these things when the dopamine has not been supplied, when there is a craving, but once you're back from there, it dawns on you that you may not like this.

I suggest you look into it deeper, I have very little information to give you more advice. Find out if what I said is true, figure out whether these practices have stemmed from a genuine sexual need or pleasure, or if they are a corruption. The craving to do these things is also, most likely, artificial, and not genuine. Just meditate on yourself, and, if you can, whenever you crave these things, take a moment to ask yourself what is about these things that you enjoy and if they really bring you satisfaction, why would they make you feel guilty afterwards. It can help with figuring out what is happening.

Two good books to read on this are "Your Brain On Porn" (more clinical, centered around neurological changes in porn addicts) and EasyPeasy (book to quit porn easily).

This answer assumes a lot of things, so I apologize if I miss the mark. Have a nice day.

Porn is a jewish business and will steadily pervert whatever natural sexual inclinations one has.

Adding to this, fetishes can be perversions that stem from the idiosyncracies of one's own personal psychology, whether that's trauma/psychological issues or simply attractions from the energies in the chart.

Attraction to themes of transformation, power and control, and dominance/submission especially, can be reflective of deeper issues, as these are plutonian/scorpionic affairs.

Studying one's Mars, Venus, 8th and 5th houses and their rulers can shed light on this.

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

I know the joy of Satan allows sexual freedom as long as you're in a relationship with a consenting adult or by yourself, but how do we know if certain sexual fetishes are damaging or not?

I sometimes like extreme femdom, and I also like along with that, wearing traditionally female clothing while pleasure is taking place, but once I release I am disinterested and a little guilty after.

help

Porn is Jewish filth, because most of the actors are Jews, and if you watch porn and masturbate to porn (where the actor is Jewish), then you are dealing with very destructive energies, this is unacceptable!

I think if your fetishes are not related to porn, the main thing is that they do not harm your physical and mental health.

I do not know your sexual orientation, as well as the reasons for your sexual preferences, so I cannot say on this score, but some people with traditional sexual orientation (married couples) sometimes practice some things, especially in old age, which fall under the extensive terminology of "femdom", of course I do not mean extreme femdom.

Extreme femdom includes very creepy things, such as ballbusting, as a result of which tissue necrosis can develop and eggs can be amputated.

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

I know the joy of Satan allows sexual freedom as long as you're in a relationship with a consenting adult or by yourself, but how do we know if certain sexual fetishes are damaging or not?

I sometimes like extreme femdom, and I also like along with that, wearing traditionally female clothing while pleasure is taking place, but once I release I am disinterested and a little guilty after.

help

This can be somewhat difficult to judge, but try to think about where the energy is going. Why are you turned on by this, and what are you trying to create as a result of your sexual activity? This influences the conclusion and therefore whether it is healthy for you, or not.

As others had stated, the influence of porn is a big indicator of unhealthiness, because fetishes are usually created and propagated in the mental sphere. That does not mean the fetish represented in porn has to be unhealthy just by its association, but rather that the manner of engagement (requiring digital stimulation to fulfill the sexual desire) is unhealthy.

As for your situation, wanting to be dominated by a partner, including a feminine partner, and/or mixing elements of femininity within your own sexual behavior, is not inherently harmful. This just suggests submissive behavior, and even if it is not the average behavior for your gender, it is not necessarily unhealthy either. Further investigations into the causes and outcomes of your actions should be investigated as a way to determine this.

 

[phi3.14infinity]

This can be somewhat difficult to judge, but try to think about where the energy is going. Why are you turned on by this, and what are you trying to create as a result of your sexual activity? This influences the conclusion and therefore whether it is healthy for you, or not.

As others had stated, the influence of porn is a big indicator of unhealthiness, because fetishes are usually created and propagated in the mental sphere. That does not mean the fetish represented in porn has to be unhealthy just by its association, but rather that the manner of engagement (requiring digital stimulation to fulfill the sexual desire) is unhealthy.

As for your situation, wanting to be dominated by a partner, including a feminine partner, and/or mixing elements of femininity within your own sexual behavior, is not inherently harmful. This just suggests submissive behavior, and even if it is not the average behavior for your gender, it is not necessarily unhealthy either. Further investigations into the causes and outcomes of your actions should be investigated as a way to determine this.

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