Question #3523: Relationships, Sex, Venus Square

[AskSatanOperator]

I communicate with girls, but I am considered unviable, so they refuse to meet me.
I've almost finished the square of venus, but I don't see any results.
I am many years old and I am afraid to remain a virgin.
It's psychologically hard for me without a relationship, lately the matrix has been killing me, reality seems to be finishing me off, I constantly see happy couples holding hands, there are a lot of young people on public transport who successfully flirt with girls.

What am I doing wrong?
Why do I want to commit suicide when they refuse me?

Lately, I really want to touch girls, hug, hold hands, not to mention sex.

 

[Invictvs]

I've almost finished the square of venus, but I don't see any results.

Continue doing the Venus square (start it again if you finish it) until you get results.

Also, very important: try to suspend your neediness and negative feelings at least during the time you're doing the Venus square and visualizing and affirming your outcome. Visualize yourself as already being in a relationship with your soulmate or whatever else you want. Take as much time as you need to visualize your perfect outcome as if you've already in a relationship with a girl and feel the feelings you would feel if you were in a relationship.

You'll know you're doing it correctly when you don't feel any more neediness after the working, but instead feel happy and accomplished, like someone who already has success with girls. That feeling together with the working is what attracts your outcome. Any neediness repels it. Keep that in mind.

 

[Karnonnos]

Venus is a planet that always concerns others. If you are doubting the Square with thoughts of being worthless, being ugly, being too old and being hated by every woman, then the Magick is going to be watered down considerably.

You need to be 100 percent that you DESERVE this and almost visualizing that it's already occurred.

OVERCOMING OBSTACLES

Due to a lack of awareness, you destroy what you are trying to create.
What I mean by this is repeating certain phrases over and over, that are contrary to what you are trying to achieve. Every cell in our body is a thinking living unit that makes up the part of the whole. This is what is referred to as the "mind-body". There is a very powerful connection here. You ARE what you think, ESPECIALLY, if you practice power meditation and/or have a more powerful soul.

With love and sex spells I never doubt my own attractiveness or worth. I do not dwell on what other people have, or don't have. I don't dwell on modern concepts like jews having to sign a 1,000 page consent form like a lot of other people. I inform myself about the other person as much as possible and then I get what I want.

It may help you to focus on a specific person and zone in on them with sex spells, if your Synastry is good.

 

[Egon]

If you feel depressed, your problem could be Solar: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?p=437736#p437736

Sun squares will give you self love and confidence. If you don't have those qualities, you might not attract people properly even if you are attractive. Others don't feel attracted to depressed people unless they are predators. Also, doing physical workout will cultivate this significantly: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=89196

Except of that, magical workings tend to have a delay from the moment you do them, most workings aren't a one time deal. That is why empowering and fixing your self from the inside out is important too.

Also, this day 27 of December is auspicious for workings regarding women, family etc.:
From brother General Yeager:
Do a Working using Gebo + Waujo or Aum Klim Kamadevaya Namah and affirm,
"In a healthy and positive manner for me I am attracting my Ideal Partner right now." .

 

[Stormblood]

You need to look for the answer inside yourself. What is causing that? Also, have a look at your birth chart for any relationship karma.

In general, relationships are not a way to heal your traumatised psyche. That is a much, much earlier step as it relates to survival. If you are in such a depressive state, you need first to address that. Otherwise, you will only be damaging yourself and other people even if you were to have a relationship with woman.

Other than working on your solar plexus chakra (and your other chakras too for balance) as it was suggested already, there is a working by HPS Lydia that can help you heal or at least find the root cause so you can heal:

:arrow: Vibrate the rune Wunjo x88 times (you can do less if you are not accustomed to that much, such as 40, or more if you can handle more, such as 111, 144, 216, 333)
:arrow: Affirm: "In the most beneficial way for me, I'm permanently and completely healed from any and all psychological, mental and emotional damage and pain." You can tailor it to make it more yours, but be sure to include everything that's needed to ensure full healing, and keep it short and simple, in present tense and with no negations.

A relationship is not the first step in adult life. The first steps are consolidating an income (career/business) and a residential property (i.e. house/apartment) to live in.

Even if you were to do a love working, you need to ask yourself if you are a quality man. Only you know the answer. Only a quality man can attract a quality woman. What do you have to offer? What value would you bring to a relationship? Love and care are not sufficient for a relationship to be successful and healthy in all ways.

I cannot tell if you are doing anything wrong without knowing the details of your life, unfortunately.