Question #1778: All the Women im interested in have Saturn aspecting my Chart Ruler

[AskSatanOperator]

I don't know what the deal is with this but every single woman that I seem to be interested in dating has their Saturn aspecting my Chart Ruler. Some of them are soft aspects like trine and sextile but they are still aspects to my ruler. However at the same time some of them have their Venus conjunct my ruler or in soft aspect to my ruler also.

I was born with my natal saturn not far from my chart ruler and every woman that is a bit younger than me have their saturn conjunct to my chart ruler. If they're more than 1-2 years younger then they will have their Neptune aspecting my ruler instead of Saturn so I don't know what I should do here. I guess im just fucked on having any happy relationship unless I try to do a binding spell any woman that I'm with which is just fucked up that I have to do that just to date happily.

How do I deal with this issue? Is this just some type of karma that I have when it comes to women?

 

[Karnonnos]

Saturn is a generational and slow-moving planet so yes, this can indicate something. Even though this seems inevitable, you may have bad past life experiences (possibly even a deadly one) regarding women slightly younger than you, or there is a more subtle meaning to it dealing with a past life commitment or rejection or something else conveyed by Saturn and your Ruler. Past life regression or remote viewing as listed on the site may help you understand.

This can also can be common when you have afflictions to Venus or the Moon in particular.

The hard aspect to the Ruler with Saturn is more grievous than the soft aspect, since the soft in most cases I've seen tends to denote neglect or some harsh quality rather than directly causing damage. Neptune aspecting the Ruler isn't always grievous like with Saturn in hard aspect but it can deal with lies and people who are deceptive and unreliable.

Ansuz can add blessings to a relationship setup as Blitzkreig said. You can try to aim for removing Negative Karma when you are powerful enough to withstand it. The Venus Square for a perfect partner is also a possibility, but I would focus on protection.